Haha.. went to celebrate Qj bdae yesterday had qt a lot of fun, i realised i wasn't feeling so stuck up is that the word to describe my feelings, is dun feel so uneasy as i always do when i go out, i feel so much better, cos i feel "rich" nt that kind tat i have a lot of $$ but the kind of feelings that i am really living in today, the kind that i feel gd abt wat i am doing actually. We went tomy mom's working place to eat which is At Plaza Parkroyal Hotel at beach road cos my mom gt discount for the international buffet in the hotel the cafe. gt sashimi, soft shell crab, fresh oyster, durian roti prata, banana prata, california roll, laksa, kuay chap, and Chocolate fountain dip, wah so nice... haha... eat until so full. then we sat there until 4 lor.. b4 we moved off to bugis area to shop and stuff and we wanted to go to chevron to sing karaoke... but haf to wait till its was 8 for Qj to come back cos he went to a dinner appointment wif peixin. then the timing was delayed and delay unti when we reach there all the rooms were all fully booked. we were on the waiting list which was qt long so we decided no to wait lah...
wif our cake we wait for Qj at the cathay bowling alley at 4th floor, then he come cut cake and took pics.. haha... so fun...mind u simple things can b fun also... and on our way back we reach the interchange then they call us to say gt slot le for k-ok... too late le ba... haha
Aniwae this bdae gt a lot of impact on me though made me realised a lot of things leh... 1st on top of the list we shouldn't take our frenz for granted... dun wait until u need sth then u call them lah... and u can be really rich nto wif all the riches in ur live nt living like a millionaire or drawing a wonderful pay havin a big car and house, u are not fufilled becos u do not enjoy the richest form of wealth in the world which is love... i realised tat love a lone can make u really wealthy, family love and love from ur frenz is thru all this tat u haf the motivation to work and love, and finally without u noeing it u may juz be the wealthiest guy on earth.
Another important thing is tat, this kind of love and wealth and richest can never be achieve by using $$ or any bought, it is accumulated by love and love alone, to gain love u muz 1st give out love to ppl to like... is juz like the phrase" to love and be loved in return. maybe an example will be like in the tian long ba bu i watched yesterday, qiao feng is a very powerful man he was made a king in his country but he din get it like other ppl working hard at his trade trying to curry his superiors favours and stuff, he did it by giving out love, love for his brother... the emperor nt leaving him behind when he is in trouble.... this is noble love... for those who have watch or read the bk will understnd what i mean.... u can't really go after love u must give it in order to get it back... dun ask me when it will return, but it juz will mayb 1 hr, 1 day, 1 week, 1 mth, 1 yr or even 1 lifetime... but i noe it juz will... in qiao feng case he din need to accumulate riches he simply gave them to his subordinates and he simply gt more the next moment...
Another example is my fren Qj, he's gt lots of frenz he din get all his frenz by default, he gt them cos he out in his time and effort and spend $ for his frenz bdae to make them a memorable 1... that's hw its done in his case and it mayb different for some1 else... so ya lor... haha... think i tok too much liao... another time ba then i tok more....